Hosting an exchange student is about more than just cultural exchange – it’s about building family. From shared laughs to valuable life lessons, the bond between host dad Ross and his exchange student, Baigazy from Kyrgyzstan, transcends borders.

“In August 2024, I welcomed Baigazy into my family (which includes my two cockatoos). We quickly arranged things so he could arrive and start high school here in Hawaii. His classes included English, US History, Engineering Technology, and Guitar. Baigazy’s first weekend was spent body surfing at a nearby beach, embracing the Hawaiian waves. He quickly mentioned wanting swim fins for Christmas. It also did not take long for Baigazy to express his desire to start practicing Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu in Hawaii. His passion for Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu is impressive. After winning a Gold Medal in Abu Dhabi last year before the exchange, he was eager to continue training in Hawaii. Ms. Barbara Bancel, the NWSE local coordinator, recommended that we try the UFC Gym by my house or the Masters Martial Arts Academy in Kailua, Hawaii for Brazilian Jiu Jitsu where her husband previously was a student. Both Baigazy and I liked the Kailua academy, although it was 30 miles from our home. On September 21, he competed in the Hawaii Triple Crown – O’ahu Open 2024, winning two Gold Medals and earning a Blue Belt promotion, while quickly moving on to help younger students.

To ensure a well-rounded experience, I encouraged Baigazy to join the wrestling team at school. He made the Varsity Team and taught his teammates some Tai Chi Chuan stretching exercises I had taught him. While he faced some challenges in understanding the rules and language, he took it all in as valuable learning experiences. While balancing sports and academics, Baigazy achieved a 4.0 GPA and made the Principal’s List. He was honored in November at an awards ceremony at the school. In our leisure time, we’ve also managed to explore the island, visiting the Pali Lookout, Waikiki Beach, and even the North Shore, where he hopes to try Matsumoto’s famous Shaved Ice on his return.

Because Baigazy is Muslim, whenever he has a school holiday on Fridays, I take him to Friday Prayers at the only Mosque on O’ahu 30 miles from my house. He’s also become a helpful part of my household, willingly assisting with our chores and yardwork. He’s even building a quirky rapport with my cockatoos who’ll accept his offer of a couple of cashews if I forget to give them their treats.”

We want to extend a special thank you to Ross and Baigazy for sharing important parts of their exchange journey! Here’s to more adventures and creating memories together in Hawaii!

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